“Unflavored lube is perfectly adequate—especially if someone is sensitive to flavors and prefers a more natural taste of their partner,” says certified sex therapist and sexologist Jenni Skyler, PhD.
But for those who aren't as eager to go au naturel, using flavored lube can make things a lil bit more enjoyable, she says. You don’t just have to use it for oral sex, though. O’Reilly recommends using it by dripping it on your partner’s chest and licking it off, or putting a few drops on your lips before kissing your way all over their body. Yum.